
One of the greatest honors in my work is stepping into families’ homes and helping them implement Trust-Based Relational Intervention® (TBRI®). At its core, TBRI® is about healing relationships through connection, and it’s guided by three simple—but powerful—relational rules:
- Stick Together
- No Hurts
- Have Fun
Recently, I had the joy of watching a family take on a deceptively simple challenge: building a tower using a deck of cards. What unfolded was more than just a game—it was a lesson in regulation, teamwork, and connection.
There were moments of frustration. The cards didn’t stack the way they hoped. Tempers flared. But something beautiful happened too: laughter broke through. The family began to lean on each other, problem-solve together, and find joy in the process—not just the outcome.
Visit Raivu Ministries at www.raivu.org to learn more about my work with families and individuals, “Building a community of people loving people- ensuring everyone is seen, heard, and valued.”