I spend a lot of time in people’s homes, working one-on-one with families to implement Trust-Based Relational Intervention® (TBRI®). It’s a deeply relational process, and over time, something special happens—there’s a moment when I know I’ve been fully welcomed into their world. It’s subtle, but unmistakable. I’m no longer just a visitor; I’m part of the rhythm of their lives.
One evening, that moment came wrapped in a tiny hand offering me a Sour Patch Kids and a teenager leaping out of the shadows wearing a terrifying mask. I’ll admit it—I screamed very loudly. And then I laughed even harder.
That night wasn’t just about candy and costumes. It was about connection. It was about being invited into the messy, joyful, unpredictable reality of a family learning to love without conditions and live life more fully.
TBRI® isn’t just a framework—it’s a way of being. It’s about helping families discover how to love without expectations, how to regulate through frustration, and how to build trust one moment at a time. And sometimes, those moments come with a jump scare and a handful of sour candy.
I’m grateful every day for the opportunity to walk alongside families on this journey. Because healing happens in relationship—and sometimes, in laughter.
Visit Raivu Ministries at www.raivu.org to learn more about my work with families and individuals, “Building a community of people loving people- ensuring everyone is seen, heard, and valued.”
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