
When I work with individuals and families, I talk a lot about attachment. It’s the foundation for how we navigate life. Everybody’s goal should be to achieve earned secure attachment—the capacity to give care, receive care, negotiate needs, and be ok with autonomous self. Personally, I’ve been working very hard on this for a very long time, striving for these character traits to define who I am. My identity is as a daughter of the king of kings Jesus, He defines me and has determined my worth.
Recently, I had a moment where this might be solidified in my security of who I am.
A very special grandson of mine told me this past week, “You smell like a flower that a rhino pooped on.”
All I could do is laugh 😂 🥳😂